Family day on the bay – San Diego, CA
Faithful and Present: A Field Guide for Husbands and Fathers, is rooted in one simple truth: a strong family foundation requires a man who is both committed and engaged. Being “faithful” speaks to your loyalty, integrity, and consistency. Being “present” means that you’re truly there—in mind, body, and heart. While these qualities may seem straightforward, living them out each day can be one of the greatest challenges a man will ever face.
All around us, life pulls in a thousand directions. Demanding careers, tight schedules, and digital distractions can nibble away at the edges of our attention and care. We might be physically in the room, but our minds can be elsewhere. As husbands, we strive to support our spouses in practical, emotional, and spiritual ways. As fathers, we strive to mold children—some small, some nearly grown—into capable, compassionate, and resilient adults. At times, we struggle to know if we’re doing enough, or if we’re even doing it right. The pressure to “get it all perfect” can feel heavy, but here’s the truth: perfection is not required. Presence and commitment are.
Why a Field Guide? Think of the times you’ve wandered onto new terrain, whether literally on a hiking trail or figuratively in a new season of life. A trusty field guide can offer insight, direction, and reassurance. It helps decode the environment and points out the hazards as well as the hidden gems. Likewise, this book offers practical wisdom, personal stories, and timeless principles to help you navigate—and thrive—in the vital role of husband and father. It’s a companion that aims to be accessible, real, and encouraging, reminding you that you’re not alone on this journey.